When you use an escort service for the first time it is normal to feel nervous. Most people avoid talking about using escort services; however, as long as the area you are in allows people to engage in that particular service you don’t have to worry about other people’s opinions! For many people, an escort experience is a chance to step out of their comfort zone and do something extraordinary. While an escort experience can be nerve-racking, here are a few things to help ease you into the escort experience.
Before She Arrives
Depending on the service you have chosen, and depending on whether it is an incall or outcall experience, here is what you need to do before she or you arrive at the agreed-upon location.
Before you can get down and dirty, you and your escort will need to freshen up. Like a date, first impressions matter, so make sure you are presentable, clean, with freshly brushed pearly whites.
If you choose an outcall service, you will want to make sure the location you and your chosen girl meet is clean and tidy.
When She Arrives
Upon arrival, it is of vital importance that you and the escort are made to feel comfortable, and under no circumstance should you start touching each other before the other party is ready. To make your escort feel safe and comfortable, you should offer her a drink and if she is coming to you give her a tour of your apartment. If you have yet to pay for your service, you must pay before getting intimate, if you try anything before payment it can lead to awkwardness and cancelled sessions.
Don’t take it personally, but your escort may need to make a safety phone call to her driver and or friend before you can get into all the sexy stuff. This is something that must be carried out with all clients to ensure the safety of the escort.
Hygiene & Health
After she is comfortable, she may ask to freshen up, if you haven’t freshened up, now is your chance to do so; however, even if you have already freshened up, your escort may ask you to shower. One reason for this is to make sure you are clean, and another is so the escort can carry out their required health check on you. If you know you have something wrong with your private parts, be sure to get it checked out and fixed before booking your session.
Down & Dirty
Getting intimate with your escort can be awkward when you have just met each other for the first time. If you have an activity that will ease you into the idea of intimacy with a stranger, make sure you let your escort know. Otherwise, they may lead the encounter and suggest your start by having a glass of wine, cuddle, or even watch TV. After kissing, you can move into heavy foreplay.
If you are unsure what feels right, or how you would like for the experience to go, let your escort set the pace. Don’t be afraid to say what you want, or tell your escort if you are nervous.
If you believe things are progressing too fast or going too slowly ask your escort if you can pick things up. Remember to be considerate, and ask ‘can we kiss?’, or ‘can we move this to another location?’ Your escort will usually set the pace as they will aim to fulfill your desires in your allocated time slot.
When you get to the bedroom, the escort will take care of all your needs; however, make sure if you don’t want a particular service such as, oral sex that you let your partner know. Remember you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.
Your escort is responsible for supplying and applying the lube and condom correctly. Our escorts don’t perform oral sex without a condom.
You must remember that an escort experience isn’t just about getting off, it’s about the memories and experience. Your escort will give it her all; however, it is up to you whether you cum. A lot of men and women are nervous for their first time and find it hard to get off. If you are unable to reach climax, don’t worry you aren’t the only one it has happened to. Enjoy the time you have together even if it doesn’t go exactly as planned.
It takes two to tango, and if your partner asks you to be gentler, or switch positions it is important that you listen to their wishes. If you both aren’t enjoying yourselves it’s not going to be a pleasurable experience.
Before you penetrate her or stick your fingers in her orifices, be polite and ask or set the ground rules upon arrival.
It would be great if we could read each other’s minds and know what feels good, but we can’t so remember to ask them what they like.
Each escort is different, but most sessions will end with some cuddling and kissing. Sessions usually end with 10-15 minutes to spare. After you have finished the escort may want to shower, and call for a driver to pick her up. If you think the escort is running late be sure to ask how long you have left together; however, it is the escort’s job to watch the time and plan accordingly.
If you have any questions, or if you would like to book an escort experience, let us know!