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First Time With An Escort: What You Need To Know!

When you use an escort service for the first time it is normal to feel nervous. Most people avoid talking about using escort services; however, as long as the area you are in allows people to engage in that particular service you don’t have to worry about other people’s opinions! For many people, an escort experience is a chance to step out of their comfort zone and do something extraordinary. While an escort experience can be nerve-racking, here are a few things to help ease you into the escort experience.

Before She Arrives

Depending on the service you have chosen, and depending on whether it is an incall or outcall experience, here is what you need to do before she or you arrive at the agreed-upon location.

Before you can get down and dirty, you and your escort will need to freshen up. Like a date, first impressions matter, so make sure you are presentable, clean, with freshly brushed pearly whites.

If you choose an outcall service, you will want to make sure the location you and your chosen girl meet is clean and tidy.

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When She Arrives

Upon arrival, it is of vital importance that you and the escort are made to feel comfortable, and under no circumstance should you start touching each other before the other party is ready. To make your escort feel safe and comfortable, you should offer her a drink and if she is coming to you give her a tour of your apartment. If you have yet to pay for your service, you must pay before getting intimate, if you try anything before payment it can lead to awkwardness and cancelled sessions.

Don’t take it personally, but your escort may need to make a safety phone call to her driver and or friend before you can get into all the sexy stuff. This is something that must be carried out with all clients to ensure the safety of the escort.

Hygiene & Health

After she is comfortable, she may ask to freshen up, if you haven’t freshened up, now is your chance to do so; however, even if you have already freshened up, your escort may ask you to shower. One reason for this is to make sure you are clean, and another is so the escort can carry out their required health check on you. If you know you have something wrong with your private parts, be sure to get it checked out and fixed before booking your session.

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Down & Dirty

Getting intimate with your escort can be awkward when you have just met each other for the first time. If you have an activity that will ease you into the idea of intimacy with a stranger, make sure you let your escort know. Otherwise, they may lead the encounter and suggest your start by having a glass of wine, cuddle, or even watch TV. After kissing, you can move into heavy foreplay.

If you are unsure what feels right, or how you would like for the experience to go, let your escort set the pace. Don’t be afraid to say what you want, or tell your escort if you are nervous.

If you believe things are progressing too fast or going too slowly ask your escort if you can pick things up. Remember to be considerate, and ask ‘can we kiss?’, or ‘can we move this to another location?’ Your escort will usually set the pace as they will aim to fulfill your desires in your allocated time slot.

When you get to the bedroom, the escort will take care of all your needs; however, make sure if you don’t want a particular service such as, oral sex that you let your partner know. Remember you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.

Your escort is responsible for supplying and applying the lube and condom correctly. Our escorts don’t perform oral sex without a condom.

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You must remember that an escort experience isn’t just about getting off, it’s about the memories and experience. Your escort will give it her all; however, it is up to you whether you cum. A lot of men and women are nervous for their first time and find it hard to get off. If you are unable to reach climax, don’t worry you aren’t the only one it has happened to. Enjoy the time you have together even if it doesn’t go exactly as planned.

It takes two to tango, and if your partner asks you to be gentler, or switch positions it is important that you listen to their wishes. If you both aren’t enjoying yourselves it’s not going to be a pleasurable experience.

Before you penetrate her or stick your fingers in her orifices, be polite and ask or set the ground rules upon arrival.

It would be great if we could read each other’s minds and know what feels good, but we can’t so remember to ask them what they like.

Finishing Up

Each escort is different, but most sessions will end with some cuddling and kissing. Sessions usually end with 10-15 minutes to spare. After you have finished the escort may want to shower, and call for a driver to pick her up. If you think the escort is running late be sure to ask how long you have left together; however, it is the escort’s job to watch the time and plan accordingly.

If you have any questions, or if you would like to book an escort experience, let us know!

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5 Tips and Tricks To Help Women Have Better Orgasms

Do you want to cum? If you wish to get in touch with your inner (and outer) ‘Oo’ you have come to the promised land, and we are going to spill all the dirty secrets to help you reach climax faster than Usain Bolt’s 100m record (9.58 seconds).

Although vaginas are anatomically similar to one another, women reach climax in different ways.

Did you know, the KINK! host and sex specialist Alix Fox claims every 2 out of 3 women aren’t reaching climax during sexual intercourse (specifically sex). This wouldn’t be a problem if people with a penis weren’t climaxing as easily as they do.

Cumming shouldn’t be the intention of sex, but rather it should be a commemorative experience between two people to indulge in intimacy. However, when John Smith is reaching climax every time and you are unable to have that sexual release you may need to address the sexual inequality.

Mind, Body, & Soul

Unlike men who are able to reach climax easily, women have gone on record saying that in order to reach a sexual climax they must feel a connection to their partner, be in the right frame of mind, and feel emotionally and physically well. For women, stress, anxiety, medication, etc. can kill an orgasm quicker than the sun melting waxwings (poor Icarus).

Even the smallest of details can affect your potential orgasm, like a lock on the door preventing unwanted guests or maintaining a cozy environment you feel comfortable in.

Oo, ah, just a little bit more

Women tend to have a longer sexual response cycle compared to men. This means it takes women on average a longer time to reach sexual satisfaction. Spending more time on foreplay will increase your chance of orgasm.

Men and women undersell and underappreciate foreplay. It takes a backseat to the ‘real sex’ (penetration); however, for a vast majority of people foreplay is real sex. In the same way, you get your car serviced, you need to be serviced to keep the floodgates open and you purring.

Foreplay includes anything you and your partner indulge before the act of penetration. Here are some suggestions for you to try; erotic storytelling, body appreciation, oral sex, manual sex, massages, and shower time. Spend time showing love to all their and your sensitive stimulation areas. To kick off foreplay, start with sensual kissing and explore their body.


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Pushed to the edge, your about to break

Are you looking for a more intense orgasm? Try edging. Edging is where you slowly build towards the climax, then stop. After repeating, you allow yourself to let go and experience an intense orgasm unlike any other.

If you try edging with a partner, let them know when you are about to cum and have them ease off; however, make sure you do not lose the possibility of an orgasm all together!


All About The Clit

Did you know there are over 8,000 nerves at the tip of the clitoris? It’s no surprise women get a lot of satisfaction from clitoral play! The key to clitoral stimulation is to ease in and slowly build up speed and pressure when prompted.

Try ‘The Rub’ technique to begin with and expand once you feel comfortable. The Rub makes use of your fingers or a sex toy. You begin by sliding up and down, or by using a back and forth motion.

So there you have it, Birmingham Dolls‘ tips and techniques to help women have better orgasms. Let us know if you enjoyed the article and if there are any others you could add to the list.