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How To Get Started With Pegging

Posted on: 15 May, 2020

A lot of men enjoy anal penetration, and many straight men are curious about the idea of being penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo. This is known as ‘pegging’, which is a cute term for it, with the dildo acting as the peg! Pegging can be something that is enjoyed as part of BDSM play where a man wants to submit to a dominant female partner, but it can also be something men who aren’t interested in femdom enjoy purely for the physical sensations that anal penetration can provide, including prostate stimulation.
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If you are curious about pegging, here are some things to know before you get started.

Different Toys

Dildos come in all shapes and sizes, and as long as the dildo you choose is compatible with the strap-on harness your partner will be using, you can use whatever style you like the idea of. Some men prefer less realistic-looking dildos, which don’t resemble penises, whereas others prefer a realistic design and texture, or even something with a fantasy feel like a dragon style dildo! You can choose whatever you want, but when you are deciding on something to use for first time pegging, it is probably more important to consider comfort and size than other things like aesthetics. Badum Tish is a great site to look at if you want to learn more about different sorts of sex toys, including dildos suitable for pegging and other anal toys like butt plugs.

Training

Some people, both men, and women, who have never experienced anal penetration before and would like to start, benefit from training themselves to get used to the feeling before doing it with a partner. When you are penetrated anally, the ring of muscle at the entrance to your anus naturally contracts, and this can make it painful or even impossible to fully penetrate. As you get used to the sensation, the muscles relax and penetration becomes more comfortable, and it can be easier to reach this state when with a partner if you have used things like small, training butt plugs before by yourself.
This isn’t a compulsory step, and it is more than possible to have a satisfying first time being pegged with no prior anal experience, but if you would prefer to get comfortable with some of the feelings first, buying a butt plug and experimenting with it can be a great idea. Remember that you should only use toys with flared bases to insert into the anus because otherwise there can be issues getting them out – don’t try to train yourself with anything other than the right kind of toy.

Preparation

The preparation and foreplay involved in getting you ready for being pegged for the first time will depend a lot on the type of experience you are going for and whether this is being done as part of BDSM play, but you will at the very least need to use lubrication (unless you specifically want it to be painful and difficult to penetrate you). Make sure you are using a lubricant that is compatible with the type of dildo you are using.
These are a few things to consider if you’re getting ready to try pegging for the first time. Have fun!

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